Very many times
Because of inertia, you have to do something very many times to generate enough force to compel a change in direction, in form, in being.
personal development
A Social Network for Introverts
How about a social network for introverts — or those who want meaningful connections? I’ve been thinking about this for a while: Can a social network where users connect with only a limited number of connections, say between five to 12 connections succeed? I’m not sure if it could be commercially successful, but I think … Read more
Character, Capacity, Competence
Character, capacity, and competence: three elements crucial to succeed wherever we find ourselves in life. They matter for every one, be it young or old. Character refers to your values, the things important to you: integrity, empathy, selflessness, generosity. It is a measure of how good you are on the inside. Capacity is your potential … Read more
Gravitas
Some people appear and fill the room. No noise, just quiet, tangible presence. They become the centre, the definition of the collective mood, the room listens when they speak. The gravitas-person is mature, possesses a soul with depths of resources and control; is confident, authentic, exhibits wholeness of personality. At work, gravitas is a core competence, … Read more
Thoughts change the thinker
Your life goes in the direction of your thoughts but you are what you think. I thought those two sayings were the same. It matters not if you justify or excuse the thought you allow to dwell in your heart, you become it. Physically. A man is good because he thinks good thoughts, peaceful because he … Read more
One path to self-discovery
You discover your purpose -and powers- in the midst of people. Join a club, a group, a large organization when you get the chance, volunteer at one if you have to because in a group people gravitate toward roles, and the one you move toward explains your natural inclinations, your talents, even skills, the stuff … Read more
Planning life
I get to this point where I need to re-evaluate things. Am I on track? Is my vision still sharp or is it blurry now? I’m checking out this life plan chart to take stock and re-map my life direction. Two things can result from this: I will discover new priorities and clarifications, and I will be assured … Read more
Books I Enjoyed Reading in the Last One Year
I have read–and listened to–more books in the last one year than during any one year. Some of them though published decades ago remain great reads. Do check them out and let me know what books are on your radar this year. Here are the ones I particularly enjoyed: Business & Entrepreneurship Blue Ocean Strategy – W. … Read more